Emme became a citizen when we landed at Newark airport on July 2nd but her certificate of citizenship arrived yesterday making it legal and official. Of course the picture on the certificate is that same AWFUL one of her screaming, taken in Guangzhou. To celebrate the newest American we're going to bake goodies for her to bring to "school" tomorrow.
****** My back is out so the day we bake is subject to change
So today I went back to work which is sooner than I originally planned. Boy was it busy. If I had waited, it would take me a year to catch up. Emme cried this morning for 5 minutes when I dropped her at "school" but otherwise had a good day though NO nap again. She was out cold in less than 5 minutes but fortunately we live 10 minutes away. I am beat but we got out of the house timely this morning. She didn't eat much for breakfast or lunch but I think she's teething. I have a call to a pediatric dentist for an appointment to see what's going on in there. On another note, grandma-ma bought her these jumbo lego type blocks and BOY did she build a tower last night. An architect perhaps?
Emme slept the entire night albeit in my bed. I got up first, made her breakfast and then woke her for her scrambled eggs and crackers. She then got washed and dressed (a battle) and we left for daycare aka school. I stayed 10 minutes, said my good-byes and left. I called an hour later and she was fine, no tears. I called after lunch and she did well. She was yawning so they took out a cot for her which she covered with her sheet and blanket and took off her shoes and socks. She napped for an hour and woke up happy. When I arrived at 4:30 she was all smiles and yelled "mama". It does my heart good to know she had such a nice day with no apparent problems. To celebrate we went to TGIF with friends and came home for a bath, a story and bed (I hope). I on the other hand came home after dropping her off, went back to bed for an hour and then cleaned some, showered, got a manicure/pedicure and a battery for my watch. All in all, a good day.
We are looking forward to the weekend; BBQ and swim with friends on Friday night, time with Ra-Ra on Saturday and a BBQ with her grandparents and Uncle Marc on Sunday. It's nice to know I am figuring out what works for her. I knew she missed being around other kids and suspected she would do well in daycare. Let's hope I'm right! Since I had not initially planned to start her this soon, I am still home in case any needs arise. I will go in a few days next week and then go back FT the week after. Emme is showing her "no I won't go to bed mama" face.
Today Em and I had a date to visit her daycare aka "school". It's a small group licensed program for ages 2-5. It's a very sweet little place, clean and the staff are very nice. The plan was we'd go visit, have lunch and if all went well we'd start tomorrow 1/2 days. We walked in, she shook her head NO and within 5 minutes asked to go down. She sat at the little table with the other children and ate her lunch sans bib. After lunch she washed her hands and face and went outside to play. I told her I was going to work and said, "bye-bye" and she shook her head no. I tried again and she waved to me. Since she seemed okay I left and waited outside the fence for 10 minutes. She cried (more like a whimper) but I saw the teacher holding her. I called after 20 minutes and again 2 hours later and she was fine. After the initial few minutes she joined the others and had a nice day. They gave her a cubby, a sand pail with her name on it and I gave her a photo of the two of us to hold. Bear went to school today too and had a lovely time. He did not get a pail. (it's dressed in yellow but she thinks it's a boy).
We were joined by dear friends and their children for a day of romping at the pool. The Divine Miss Em arrived somewhat undercover in order to distract her adoring fans. Pink shades help. We stopped at the third floor resting spot for a snack of red jello with suspended bananas. Gifts were exchanged and the fun began. We donned out swim attire to the club and started out in the baby pool yet somehow I suspected we'd be moving on up to the "east side" and we did. We have now conquered the adult pool and won. Emme and I were in the water for 4 hours straight. This was Emme's first pool experience as well as her buddy Tori so extra kudos all around. After dinner we hit the playground and Emme decided to drive everyone around town in the car. We dined, we danced, we twirled in the water and when it was time to say goodnight we all had a single tear coming down one cheek. I leave you with proof of all our fun.
Today was special. We spent the day with MP's (man-person) parents and this was the first time they met Em. She did great and had a really nice time in addition to a HUGE bowl of ravioli. She is absolutely smitten with MP and runs after him all the time. We had fun blowing bubbles and playing in the house. She began to crash around 7ish and within minutes was asleep in the car for the hour journey home. She is now in her jammies having a snack of banana puffs and water.
We FINALLY have enjoyed a bath and didn't want to get out of the tub. YAY for victory! Emme seemed to enjoy her bath today though she doesn't play a lot but she loves to wash my feet with her washcloth. I bought this shampoo cup that has a stretchy part that goes against her head and keeps the water from getting into her face. I think it's made a difference too. After the aforementioned bath we had a play date with a nice Jewish boy who is the son of a friend of mine. We dined on authentic noodles and dumplings and Emme had some of her favorite banana yogurt as a chaser. She loves their cats and chased them all around the house and snuck up on one and got a nice pet in. I am glad she likes animals though we won't have any of our own anytime soon. I can't help but sneak the last picture in (sorry Deb) but Emme always ends up in the bathroom with her friend. Last time we caught her trying to pull up his underwear. A few pics from the day.
Emme had her first real restaurant experience tonight. She ate at the buffet at the White Swan but that was a 1-2-3 event. One of my colleagues (and friend) received a promotion and there was a party for her at a local Mexican restaurant. Emme had dinner at 5pm, a bath and got dressed for the occasion which began at 6pm. Since only one of us could get a shower and look divine, we decided it would be her. I wore sweats for this most auspicious occasion. I figured we'd say hello and if she wasn't happy, we'd leave. Since grandma-ma would also be there I thought she might be okay. She had a second bath in a row without tears and even donned her new Stride Rite shoes which just happened to match her dress (thanks Lisa B.). Of course she now won't take them off but we are dealing with one battle at a time. She charmed everyone and within minutes was feeding my boss Cheerios. Luckily he didn't mind that a few were from the floor. He graciously accepted them which made her laugh. I ordered dinner for myself and a kids meal for her in case she was hungry. Em bopped to the Mariachi band and offered many smiles and claps for them while they entertained the patrons. I am so proud of her for making it a whole two hours. She started to cry but it was only because I wouldn't let her roam around anymore. The restaurant became crowded and she didn't understand she could get hurt if she got in the way of the waiters. I actually never go to this restaurant because they aren't very nice and the manager sneered at us because she dropped her goldfish crackers on the floor. I won't repeat what he said ( I do know a few words) So overall, a huge success considering she didn't even eat other than a snack of Cheerios and two glasses of water. A few photos from tonight as well as her visit with her grandparents yesterday. I couldn't resist the "bathroom" picture. I suspect she isn't ready for potty training but she sat on it for 10 minutes on 2 occasions.
Today we had plans with one of my best gal pals and her kids to go to the ecology center and have a picnic lunch. Em woke up okay but was a little out of it probably from all her shots yesterday. She didn't eat breakfast but we went out anyway. She stayed mostly in her stroller but came out to play with the kids a little and then took a power nap in the car ride home. Dawn even gave her a little pineapple head with a pigtail on top of her head. We stopped at Buy Buy Baby since I needed to return a monitor and we picked up a booster seat for the car for when we go traveling during meal time. She doesn't like highchairs and this way we have our own clean and comfy seat. I needed a few other odds and ends like more toddler cutlery and an extra bib so it was a productive trip. A few pics from our outing today.
A little side note (without a picture) but I bought a potty seat for the toilet and she sat on it for 10 minutes. She later took off her diaper. I am not planning to potty train her now but the seat is here if she wants to use it.
Today was a pretty darn good day. Em slept okay last night but until 9am which is unlike her. We got up, had a bath, started the day with a hearty breakfast and then I freaked realizing Em has no shoes. Her BobDog sneakers are soaked and she hasn't even been willing to take them off to begin with. She is looking for them since she got up. I call my mom quickly and tell her I need quarters and Crocs or something. She brings them over, Emme does a dance of glee and she wore her new Crocs out today.
MP was coming to spend the day with us but she was a bit of a bear when he arrived so I suggested we get in the car and go. She'll nap, we'll have an hour to catch up and go from there. It was perfect! After an hour and a bit we went to an ice cream place and all had a tasty summer treat of soft serve. We then drive a few blocks and got a spot in Long Beach so we pulled out the stroller and decided we'd take Em for her first ocean stroll. We walked a while, came back and found a nice playground that impressed me most by it's choice in flooring. What a world of difference and comfort for a parent knowing there is actually protective mechanisms there to ensure your child's safety. So I digress. Like yesterday Em wanted to go on the BIG slide and she sure did and MP was there to catch her every time which is significant to me. While Emme may be my forever love and my dream love because I wanted her so badly, R is my first love and it is important to me that the two loves of my life get to know each other and want to spend time with each other. My situation is not quite conventional and whatever you may want to call it, this is my family and I am so proud of them both for giving the other a chance.