WOW! Spend a few minutes watching this and you will have a complete understanding of how I came to the decision to adopt from China. The worst part for me is knowing that my child's birth mother has no say in the decision to abandon her child. I believe that will haunt me for a long time but it is also something I will probably be forever grateful for as well. The best thing I can do is honor my daughter's birth country and allow her to be whoever it is she is meant to be. Please let me know what you think.